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Monday, May 10, 2010

A to Z of Zen

A – Avoid negative sources, people, places and habits

B – Believe in yourself

C – Consider things from every angle

D – Dont give up and dont give in

E – Everything you are looking for lies behind the mask you wear

F – Family and friends are hidden treasures, seek them and enjoy their riches

G – Give more than you planned to

H – Hang on to your dreams

I – If oppertunity doesn’t knock, build a door

J – Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it

K – Keep trying no matter how hard it seems

L – Love yourself

M – Make it happen

N – Never lie, steal or cheat

O – Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values

P – Practice makes perfect

Q – Quality not quantity in anything you do

R – Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer

S – Stop procrastinating

T – Take control of your own destiny

U – Understand yourself in order to better understand others

V – Visualise it

W – When you lose, dont lose the lesson

X – Xcellence in all your efforts

Y – You are unique, nothing can replace you

Z – Zero in on your target and go for it

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Fifi does Vietnam



Vietnam, last day of Jan '09

Travel smells

Memories came flooding back after a took a deep breath of air. Those smells tingled my senses and opened the travel part of my brain. I felt awake once more. Travelling has a profound impact on me and never ceases to excite me. For some people its a taste of chocolate or coffee that makes them alive, for me its the smell of travelling.

Its the association of fun memories, new sights, tastes and smells that makes me want to explore. Ten years ago I was last in South East Asia, so it is a a pleasure to be here again and to be in a new country, Vietnam. How lucky I am to travel for work, it is something I have always aspired too and it was my aim 10 years ago. The only thing that is missing for me is my much loved travel partner in crime, Jim.

So first impressions of Hanoi in Vietnam:
Clean, smiley, lots to buy and quirky cafés to hang out in.

The old quarter, where I am staying, has lots of hidden streets, shops and colourful buildings. It is very easy to walk around and the temperature is very pleasant a mild 20oc so great for walking.

The prices vary a lot, at the moment I'm sat in a café which is quite western (but free wifi) its around 70p for a beer and 50p for a tea, I have had cheaper (tea, not beer). My aim is to have an alcohol free 2 weeks (hmm, we will see).

I have booked my cycle rickshaw for later, a very sweet man called Vin is picking me up for a cycle tour of Hanoi, 1 hour 3 US dollars.

Vin was a star we cycled for over an hour and a half. He showed me loads of places which was cool and I even got to cycle with him as a passenger, the locals all smiled.

Next place – Cat Ba

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Thanks for the memories!

Thank you for making our wedding such a special day!

The wedding party

Link to our wedding photos on flickr.

Our honeymoon was in far west cornwall, where we enjoyed living by the sea for 2 weeks, the Scilly Isles and Sennen Cove.

Basking sharks, surfing, good walks, cycling and lots and lots of fresh, clean air - bliss!!

The Honeymoon

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Merry Christmas and a Very Happy New Year

What a year! Thank you all for being part of it :)



Hellloooo,

Well you could say that we've have had a busy 2008....

We started the year in India visiting old haunts and eating fantastic food again.

Jim then decided to make a honest women of me and asked me to marry him (in the back of our van having a bbq in the rain and wind – forever the romantic)

We then started looking for houses...

We did our adventure holiday and cycled from Bristol to Padstow in Cornwall – 300 miles of pure fresh air.

Both working hard, I'm loving managing a small international charity and are we are both doing well at work.

Then in September we got hitched in a field in my wellies, marrying the best person ever – Jim, who has keeps me in mischief and spent my wedding night in a tent....well you wouldn't expect anything else...

Moved house from a small flat to a terrace with a garden – going to be DIY experts (well in time)..

And then 2008 is finally nearing an end so we are going to have our first Christmas in Brighton and we are going to join another crazy bunch of people who think it is fun to swim in the sea on Christmas day.

Hope all is good with you and don't forget if you are ever in the deep South East pop in to the retro-ness that is Brighton

lots of love, Fiona and Jim

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

Wedding Details - for our special day ;)

All the invites for our Wedding have been sent out, if you are coming don't forget to RSVP. The evening invites will be coming soon.

Fi and JIm

Date: Saturday 13th September 2008
At
: St Matthew’s Church, Hayfield, High Peak, SK22 2PG
Time: 2pm

After formalities: You can join the bride and groom who will walk you to the Sportsman pub for a quick drink then up to the party field. (about a mile from St Matthew’s – up hill).

The reception will be in a marquee at the bottom of a field – please bear this in mind when choosing footwear….(the bride will have wellies too!).

All the family welcome, bring the dog, cat, or goldfish - all welcome.

Rough plan for days events:
Next stage: 6pm buffet meal in the marquee.
8ish – Speeches
After: Party…….no official finishing time, party till you drop.

RSVP (We need you to reply to your invites so we can plan food and numbers):
Email: wedding@monkeyrat.com
Snail Mail: 10b Queens Place, Brighton. BN1 4JY

01273 818546 - Home / 07888701590 – Fiona / 07888701588 - Jim

When driving into hayfield you will pass St. Mathews Church. Park in the Royal Hotel if you want to keep the car near the church.

Location of Wedding Marquee - Buffet, dancing and merriment:

http://tinyurl.com/5b6sqk

If you need printed info please let Fiona know.

View from Hill House, Hayfield, Derbyshire

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Wedding Accommodation

Just a quick note - if you want to stay in a local B&B or hotel you will need to book very soon as they cannot guarantee the rooms will be free for too much longer…..

Camping – you can join the bride and groom and camp overnight near the marquee – all free and toilets provided near by.

Hotels and B&B – in Hayfield:

The Sportsman - Kinder Road, Hayfield, High Peak, Derbyshire SK22 2LE
01663 741565
Email: info@thesportsmanhotel.co.uk
6 rooms all on suite
Cost: £60/night

The Royal Hotel – Market Street, Hayfield, High Peak SK 22 2EP
01663 742721
www.theroyalhayfield.co.uk
5 rooms all on suite
Cost: £60/night

George Hotel – 14 Church Street, Hayfield, High Peak SK22 2JE
01663 743691
www.georgehotelhayfield.co.uk
6 rooms all on suite
Cost £60/night

Kinder Lodge - 10 New Mills Road, Hayfield, High Peak SK22 2JG
01663 743613
www.kinderlodge.hi-peak.net
5 rooms all on suite
Cost – will need to call

More very suitable b and b's here: http://hayfieldvillage.co.uk/pages/accommodation

Cottages:

In Hayfield village - 01663 745090, 01663 743 590, 01663 747241

Mrs Jackie Searle
Booth Farm, Kinder Road
Hayfield, High Peak
01663 749118

Other locations for accommodations near by:

Buxton – 10 miles away
Glossop – 7 miles away
New Mills – 5 miles away
Chapel-en-le-firth – 5 miles away

Posh hotels near by
:
www.moorsidegrangehotel.com

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Wedding List

There will not be the usual wedding list for a department store in our invites to you. As we are in the process of moving home, and the only 2 things that we really want are: A wormery and a special tent..

But as those are not the most practical wedding gifts vouchers from the below shops would be gratefully received (brown links go to the online shops where you can buy online):

IKEA - Gift Vouchers can only be bought in shop, not online
MARKS AND SPENCER - anything for house, or garden
OUTSIDE - for outdoor gear
JOHN LEWIS - anything for house, or garden

or anything which you think we would like :)

Useful websites:

www.hayfield.uk.net
www.derbyshireuk.net/hayfield.html

Hayfield - High Peak Adventures

Really hope you can all make it, it sure will be a wonderful day as well as fantastic setting. Just don't expect us to do this dance!